The heart Vs the brain..

Heart and brain... Which one must we follow? which one is more superior? Does the braintell the heart what to feel? Which one is it?

Why is it that something so wrong can feel so right.. And something right can feel so wrong? Why cant we stand strong to something we know thats not right as it involves other human beings?
How would we feel if it was to happen to us? is it different? If your head says its wrong and still follow your heart does that make you a bad person? Would that be the way your seen in others eyes?

Lots of people have been let down in relationships.. Do they hold that in and change who they are and be so cold in future connections? why is it that one finds it hard to do? Even after being let down by love and you decide you wont let anyone get close to you, why is it that we cant stand strong to that? does the other give a positive vibe? or how can u be sure both are on the same page? Well to answer that my self I guess its just to discuss about it openly with the other.. But what if you are blowing it out of proportion? Most people say go with the flow and enjoy it.. But it is easy to do for those who just do things casually.. What happens to those who are still so old fashioned and does believe that there is that someone out there.. May be you still can have that life you've always wanted.. but then those things are just way over the top. !st you've gotta deal with standing your ground..

If someone is in love with someone, but enjoys spending time with someone else, is that love real? or what is it? why do u get confused with whats reality? why are we so blinded? so confused.... :(