Why is it that one cant move forward or cant overcome something? Is it cos that person in mentally unstable? Is it cos they need psychiatric help? Even though they get phychiatric help how can the fears be erased?
Why is it that people in this world love putting people down and stick their nose into other peoples lives as if they know what truely is happening? Why is it that when the people involved hear about it, get affected. Is it cos their feelings are not strong? Is it cos they dont trust the other or for that matter have no faith..
How can someone have faith in someone that has let them down.... If one has let them down and then forgave that person and try to figure out if they can make it work and move past it and the decision is in ones hands, why does that person always fall back on these tales and end up at square one? Why? How can this stop? Hypnosis? Will that help? Why cant the person involved in this understand how to reassure that doubt? why is our human brain so complex? Why is our heart so vulnorable? How come people can be so cold and hurt people without even blinking an eye? How does one become that? These are questions I am seeking answers to and it certainly is driving me mad... HELP!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Monday, June 1, 2009
How to make the correct choice.
Emotions... Such a weired thing I must say... It can lift you high as the sky or take you so low that you wish you were six feet under... How do we control it? I am trying to search for the answer... hoping that when I write I will find it...
Sometimes you think everything is great and your probably getting your life back on track... but then all of a sudden your brain drifts and pulls out some old memories which makes you look back and wonder, did I do the right thing? Or makes you miss that life... and when you go through old pictures, so many questions come up in your head that you want answers then and there and there is no one to give those answers to you.. Nothing in Black and white.. everything is grey... I wish there was a sure way of us knowing its right or wrong.. Cos sometimes your heart wants to do the right thing but your brain keeps saying dont and doesnt let you take that chance...
Why do we have that fear of taking chances? Why do we build such big walls in front of us so that we cant climb it? and why is it so hard to make up your mind and stick to your decision? I know there are some strong people out there that can make a decision and stick to it and not look back. But unfortunately some can not. For them they take that decision cos it is what makes them feel happy and they know at that time it is the right thing to do. But they still look for someones approval to say "Yes that was the correct thing" But In life you are never sure of things. and even if someone approves some may still disagree.... So when someone is faced with such a situation, what do they do? How can they move past? How can they start rebuilding their lives? Why do most people get stuck in that situation? Anyone know the answers.. Please do write your thoughts.... I am still looking for those answers....
Sometimes you think everything is great and your probably getting your life back on track... but then all of a sudden your brain drifts and pulls out some old memories which makes you look back and wonder, did I do the right thing? Or makes you miss that life... and when you go through old pictures, so many questions come up in your head that you want answers then and there and there is no one to give those answers to you.. Nothing in Black and white.. everything is grey... I wish there was a sure way of us knowing its right or wrong.. Cos sometimes your heart wants to do the right thing but your brain keeps saying dont and doesnt let you take that chance...
Why do we have that fear of taking chances? Why do we build such big walls in front of us so that we cant climb it? and why is it so hard to make up your mind and stick to your decision? I know there are some strong people out there that can make a decision and stick to it and not look back. But unfortunately some can not. For them they take that decision cos it is what makes them feel happy and they know at that time it is the right thing to do. But they still look for someones approval to say "Yes that was the correct thing" But In life you are never sure of things. and even if someone approves some may still disagree.... So when someone is faced with such a situation, what do they do? How can they move past? How can they start rebuilding their lives? Why do most people get stuck in that situation? Anyone know the answers.. Please do write your thoughts.... I am still looking for those answers....
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